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A Different Kind of Awards Show

 Chabad of Malibu's annual awards gala takes place Saturday night.


This Sunday evening, millions of people will tune in to watch the Academy Awards. People receiving recognition and awards for their accomplishments appears to be a good idea. Competition seems to bring out the best in people, and the desire to be a "winner" is woven into the very fabric of our yearning spirits.

I recall once watching the faces of the nominees during those painful few seconds when the presenter was opening the sealed envelope. I recall being able to feel the deep anxiety of the nominees. The seconds for them must have felt like hours. Imagine, all that built-up energy and in just a few seconds they would be reading either the "winner" speech ("I don't want to forget ...") or they would be internalizing, "You are not a winner!"

And each time the big moment comes and the winner is announced, the camera moves immediately to the winner. It is very similar to American Idol when it's down to two people and the winner is announced—and the number two suddenly is history.

When you witness the sheer joy on the face of the winner for the Academy Award or on the face of the American Idol, you can feel their joy. But I recall years ago a passing fantasy as I observed the Academy Awards. Imagine if such excitement could be generated from a different type of winning, an award show for people who demonstrate a perfection in categories like kindness and compassion.

When I first began writing this column in May of last year, I began with the theme  It remains the name of the column. This name was chosen because I firmly believe there are certain enduring values that live "over the rainbow." Imagine living a life with no anger, hate or jealousy? That would truly be over the rainbow!

My experience has been that, regardless of political or ideological differences, there is a universal transcendent appreciation that we humans have toward people who are deeply caring and good.

It has been many years since that wonderful fantasy. On the eve of this year's Academy Awards, this thought occurred to me: our annual fundraiser and auction benefiting our children's programs was moved from Sunday to Saturday night to accommodate those who wanted to watch the awards show. Together with our loving and dedicated team, we have decided to use our annual event to hand out our own type of Oscars.

For example, many of you know one of our "nominees" in the category of "A Good heart." I remember first meeting  18 years ago. Her kindness has reached out to and touched the hearts of so many people. Today, Dede is part of the leadership team at Gan Malibu Preschool. When I found out that she was up for an "award" in this category, I wanted to give it the loudest vote I could! I can't believe it, I can already feel the butterflies. Will she actually be the winner?

Our awards show will not be aired live in 200 countries ... perhaps one day. But you are welcome to join in person, for our "awards ceremony" while there is still space available.

 

Shabbat Shalom!

Happy President's Day

A look into the significance of the public holiday.


“I earnestly pray that the Omnipotent Being who has not deserted the cause of America in the hour of its extremist hazard, will never yield so fair a heritage of freedom a prey to "Anarchy" or "Despotism"” – President George Washington

As our country prepares to enjoy the Presidents Day long weekend, I began reading about the significance of this holiday and focused on George Washington.

In the Jewish tradition, the holidays  are not meant to be simply a commemoration; rather, we are taught to do our utmost to absorb ourselves in the depth of the holiday, as if it were the very first time that we are making note of the important day. 

For example, when Passover, the holiday of the exodus, comes around, we are meant to reexamine the dreadfulness of slavery, not just as a slave to others but also what it means to be a slave to flawed ideas, and then explore the wonderful gift of freedom.

Until 1971, we celebrated President George Washington’s Birthday on February 22.   It was only later to become known as Presidents Day -- the third Monday of February -- to incorporate the observance of President Lincolns birthday-- but mainly so this observance can always allow us to enjoy a long holiday weekend.

Our country was truly blessed to have such profoundly, intelligent and truly caring leaders as her founders. How easy is it for us to forget the tyranny that existed in most governing systems of that time. For most countries, the rule of law was mostly left at the mercy of tyrannical leaders. On the other hand, George Washington, the first person elected to the office of President of the United States of America, was an inspiration.

Only very recently did I become aware of a heartfelt interchange, between a Jewish congregation and President Washington. The timing of this interchange is especially important to any student of Jewish history. At that time, the treatment of Jews in most countries was filled with anti-Semitism.

President Washington's correspondence established these key points:  (a) America's leader recognized G-d, but (b) not any particular church or religion, and (c) respected and appreciated the Jewish people. If you have not read this interchange before, I am posting it below. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

May G-d bless the United States of America

 

Shabbat Shalom!


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On August 17, 1790, Moses Seixas, the warden of Congregation Kahal Kadosh Yeshuat Israel, better known as the Hebrew Congregation of Newport, Rhode Island, penned an epistle to George Washington, welcoming the newly elected first president of the United States on his visit to that city.

Newport had suffered greatly during the Revolutionary War. Invaded and occupied by the British and blockaded by the American navy, hundreds of residents fled, and many of those who remained were Tories. After the British defeat, the Tories fled in turn.:

Sir,

Permit the children of the Stock of Abraham to approach you with the most cordial affection and esteem for your person & merits and to join with our fellow Citizens in welcoming you to New Port.
With pleasure we reflect on those days—those days of difficulty, & danger when the God of Israel, who delivered David from the peril of the sword, shielded your head in the day of battle: and we rejoice to think, that the same Spirit who rested in the Bosom of the greatly beloved Daniel enabling him to preside over the Provinces of the Babylonish Empire, rests and ever will rest upon you, enabling you to discharge the arduous duties of Chief Magistrate in these States.
Deprived as we heretofore have been of the invaluable rights of free Citizens, we now (with a deep sense of gratitude to the Almighty disposer of all events) behold a Government, erected by the Majesty of the People--a Government, which to bigotry gives no sanction, to persecution no assistance--but generously affording to All liberty of conscience, and immunities of Citizenship: deeming every one, of whatever Nation, tongue, or language, equal parts of the great governmental Machine: This so ample and extensive Federal Union whose basis is Philanthropy, Mutual Confidence and Public Virtue, we cannot but acknowledge to be the work of the Great God, who ruleth in the Armies Of Heaven and among the Inhabitants of the Earth, doing whatever seemeth him good.
For all the Blessings of civil and religious liberty which we enjoy under an equal and benign administration, we desire to send up our thanks to the Antient of Days, the great preserver of Men--beseeching him, that the Angel who conducted our forefathers through the wilderness into the promised land, may graciously conduct you through all the difficulties and dangers of this mortal life: and, when like Joshua full of days and full of honor, you are gathered to your Fathers, may you be admitted into the Heavenly Paradise to partake of the water of life, and the tree of immortality.

Done and Signed by Order of the Hebrew Congregation in Newport Rhode Island

Moses Seixas, Warden


To which President George Washington responded:

Gentlemen:

While I received with much satisfaction your address replete with expressions of esteem, I rejoice in the opportunity of assuring you that I shall always retain grateful remembrance of the cordial welcome I experienced on my visit to Newport from all classes of citizens. The reflection on the days of difficulty and danger which are past is rendered the more sweet from a consciousness that they are succeeded by days of uncommon prosperity and security.

If we have wisdom to make the best use of the advantages with which we are now favored, we cannot fail, under the just administration of a good government, to become a great and happy people. The citizens of the United States of America have a right to applaud themselves for having given to mankind examples of an enlarged and liberal policy--a policy worthy of imitation. All possess alike liberty of conscience and immunities of citizenship.

It is now no more that toleration is spoken of as if it were the indulgence of one class of people that another enjoyed the exercise of their inherent natural rights, for, happily, the Government of the United States, which gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance, requires only that they who live under its protection should demean themselves as good citizens in giving it on all occasions their effectual support. It would be inconsistent with the frankness of my character not to avow that I am pleased with your favorable opinion of my administration and fervent wishes for my felicity.

May the children of the stock of Abraham who dwell in this land continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other inhabitants--while everyone shall sit in safety under his own vine and fig tree and there shall be none to make him afraid.

May the father of all mercies scatter light, and not darkness, upon our paths, and make us all in our several vocations useful here, and in His own due time and way everlastingly happy.

G. Washington

The Legacy of Trees

Even as our world becomes less dependent on paper to communicate ideas, how can we ignore the legacy of ideas that has been inseparable from paper?


When we reflect on our environment, we are reminded of our great blessing—we live in the Disneyland of nature.

I recall a few years back when we were dealing with gophers who seemed to be eating away at the vegetation on our property, I contacted a company that uses organic methods that are not harmful to the animals. The fellow said, "You must not forget, you moved into their home, not the other way around."

The statement gave me a whole new perspective on our environment and what it means to be a "good neighbor" to nature.

If you go to Google maps and type in 90265, you will quickly notice the big green patch that sets this city aside from the surrounding areas. One does not need to do a serious study to note the amazing tree-per-person ratio in Malibu, especially compared to what we see in nearby cities. 

"Man is a tree of the field," and the Jewish calendar, in an observance dating back thousands of years, reserves one day each year (this year, this past Wednesday)— for the "New Year for Trees."

There are so many gifts that we receive from the world of trees. Whether it be the air that we breathe, the clothes that we wear or the fruit that we eat—we are so dependent on trees.

Even as our world becomes less dependent on paper to communicate ideas, how can we ignore the legacy of ideas that has been inseparable from paper?

In Brooklyn, N.Y., on Eastern Parkway, there is one of the most prominent Judaic libraries in the world. It contains about 250,000 published volumes, most of which are rare. Every one of these books has a story, many of these are stories of survival from villains of anti-Semitism. Today, more than 50,000 of these important books and manuscripts have been scanned and are now online in digital format at no charge. 

Consider this: If not for the trees, the important information these books contain, and their messages of hope and endurance, would have gone to the grave.

So to the trees on our planet, I say, "Thank you, and I hope we can learn to be as giving and selfless as you!"

 

Shabbat Shalom!

Justice for Emily

 The trial of the man who took her life was yet another reminder that our justice system does not work very well.

 

"We must translate pain into action, and tears into growth" —The Rebbe 

When Cain decided that he could choose whether his own brother could live or die, we recall that after he murdered his brother Abel, G-d said to Cain, "The voice of your brother's blood cries to Me from the ground" (Genesis 4:10). With events of this week in the , I am reminded of these famous biblical words.

On April 3, 2010, was robbed of her life. This innocent child was killed by . The soul of Emily is eternal and lives forever. Our memory of Emily is always with us.

The trial of the man who took her life was yet another reminder that our justice system does not work very well. It took nearly two years for the trial to begin as a a long, drawn-out process took its course. And with the result being a mistrial, the process will continue with another trial. I pray that enough people will realize that something must be done so that no person should have to endure as the Shane family is doing with such courage and grace—the continuous agony of reliving Emily's death.

As readers recall, in the immediate aftermath of Emily’s passing, the Shanes—in Emily's memory—began . The Shanes took all of the unbearable pain of the loss of their dear Emily and channeled it to inspire people from around the world. Their idea was to motivate each person to do one more benevolent act which, in turn, would spur another to do the same. Many heartwarming stories have been shared by people who have joined this cause, and the stories just keep coming in. 

As long as people act kindly, with a continuous ongoing chain of acts of goodness and kindness, there is hope to correct the failures of justice. What the Shanes have done and are continuing to do is to help assure that our planet will be filled with people who see the world not as a lawless jungle, but as a beautiful orchard, granted to us as a gift from G-d, and requiring our partnership and ongoing nurturing.

Perhaps the delay in justice calls upon us to take the Shane campaign up a few notches! There is much healing needed in our families and our community—and beyond. In Hebrew, acts of goodness and charity are termed Tzedakah. Consider that this same word also means righteousness or justice.

Surely, giving to others in the memory of Emily Shane and letting the Shanes know about it will help them during this difficult period.  And it will help you as you ask yourself, "Do I hold the key to healing?"

The heroic response of the Shane family continues to give new meaning to these famous words: "And they shall beat their swords into plowshares."(Isaiah 2:2-4).

 

Shabbat Shalom! 

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